In your time of loss

​I’m here for you with genuine warmth, empathy, compassion, creativity, experience and professionalism. Paying tribute to your loved one with a ceremony that honours their life, is a selfless act of pure love and respect. It's an important, poignant acknowledgement of who they were and what they meant to you and all those near and dear to them. Holding a carefully crafted ceremony, also provides a safe space for you and others to grieve together. There's so many decisions to make when someone dies, and the feeling of being pulled in many different directions can be quite overwhelming. You may have a clear concept concerning the ceremony, perhaps even have people you can delegate to, yet managing the 'to do' list can still be exhausting. ​​​ I'll work with your vision, and at the level of involvement you'd like from me. As your Celebrant it's my role to walk alongside you; to guide, support and hold space for you. I'll be offering choices for your consideration, for a ceremony that's tailored to your beloved, which truly represents them. I can step in, or out; doing more, or less, as required. You may wish to take a fully active part in the ceremony and I will flexibly accommodate this, while still providing experienced guidance. ​​ I’ll listen, and together we’ll discuss options and work out your preferences. I’ll lead the service (or just manage parts of it) in a way that ensures people feel it's safe to mourn, cry, perhaps even share a laugh, and say their final farewell. ​ I have lived experience of suicide (my father, friends), terminal illness (my sister, several close friends) and accidental death (close friends). Although there's no doubt these sad deaths have profoundly affected me, they've also given me the ability to understand and empathise with those dealing with shock and raw grief. I'd be extremely privileged to be your Celebrant.  ​ Please see below for the types of services I offer.​